Clarion call!!!

Nigerians, we woke up on the new year day to a special gift from this imbecile dictator and his cohorts, a hike in fuel pump price. We took to the street to protest our grievances in peaceful manner. This joke of a leader turned a closed eye, not that he is being threatened by our strength in unity and number, we woke up again this morning with another poking in our eyes, we can't exercise our rights to gather and protest again. All this in a constitutionally protected sovereign nation. They ve turned our "sick" democracy to militiocracy, with armed military personnel parading our streets. What insolence? Did we actually cast our votes for this weakling? Is this the so call fresh air? Don't we have rights in our own land anymore?
This is a call to defend ur right. How many of us can they kill? How many of us does he think can be silenced? He can arrest those he can see. But can he come and arrest you through your BBM, facebook page, twitter, etc? Let's give this mis-born a run for his power. Let's show him power belong to the people. In unity we stand.
This is a man that can't take the fight to militants! Yet he felt threatened by our simple, organized protest. What kind of a leader is this Ebele?
This is a clarion call to all youths of this country. Fine, you think u can adapt but what of that person beside u now? Can he adapt to the high cos of goods and services too? This is the time!!!
If you are not brave enough to join the protest against all odds, do something to make it successful. Anything. This country is ours not theirs!!!
Arise o compatriots!!!

RAPE: The many victims are silent!!!

HERE WE GO AGAIN.

THIS MADE ME CRY! IT IS MEAN! READ!!!!!
PLEASE I AM BEGGING YOU!Daddy please no........STOP!!!!!!!!
you are one sick person if you dont add your friends i feel for you if this doesnt touch you because this is just wrong. read this. its disgusting

Walking in my nighty; rubbing my eyes My fathers sitting on the sofa with his friend He pats the seat in the middle; i sit Shivering so cold; a quilt he lends
"Jessy you love me don't you" a smile Their breathe spirts weeps "Daddy you know i do; what is it?" He smiles at his friend; his hand creeps
His friend takes my hand; looks me in the eyes Daddys creeping up my nightie; cold hands I try to pull his hand away; their grip is strong! They look at one another; nod; something planned
I feel my palms sweat; Daddys under my knickers "Daddy im going to bed! Night" Pulling again But there grip is to strong for weak me I look at both; and ask, who are these men?
His fingers going up me; pulling away His friend leans forward; a kiss? Why? His toungue moving mine; my eyes squint Lean back and away; "Why are you doing this?" No answer, i feel the pain inside me; him Chucks the quilt on the floor; me to I try and scamper away, but im not fast "O Daddy please, i love you"
His friend; pulling at my nightie And my Dad pulling my pants down His friend pinning my hands to the floor As my Dad lies himself on the ground
I squirm; as Daddy friend pulls me up And places me ontop of Daddy; thrusts within I cry; i bite; i scratch; i slap; i fail "O Daddy please you win you win!"
I can feel my skin rip; my virginity breaking free I can feel the blood seep down my leg "Daddy your hurting me please" I plead to him and his friend; not even a beg
Daddys laughing; why does he laugh? His friend shoves himself in my mouth and moans Tieing my hands togather; moving in and out "Ride me Jessy" He laughs and groans
They smile at one another; laugh to They roll me over and spread me wide well My daddy sits on my face; himself in again While his friend talks and pushes himself inside
I can hardly breathe; i gag for air I cough and splutter; cry and weep I beg and plead; but its no use Theyve already made me hurt and bleed
I stare into his eyes; that look upon me This is not my Dad; where is he? If he was still here; would he care Would he actually even; see?
Finally they get off and lie me on the sofa My cheeks blouchy from tears and pain They play with them selfs; all over me Rub it in; making me feel the shame
"Why Daddy? Please tell me why?" Dad looks at his friend; and waves him away "Jessy i love you" he smiles and kisses my cheek "Is that all you have in your heart to say?"
He puts my nightie on me he walks me to my bedroom door Ever since that night; His friend And himself every Friday come back for more
"Night sweet Girl; You are my life" Closing the door, tears still down my face Still the smell of him and his friend Fade into me like disgrace
I watch the Moon go down; the sun come up "Jessy its school" Knocking at my door I cant help but cry; weep in pain Because im so scared he wanted more
But one night daddy took it too far Daddy and his friend came back for one last shot They were worried they would get caught So he and his friend took me to a cemetary lot
I was blindfolded and my hands were tied back "Daddy please!! Not tonight!" Daddy and his friend both had their last fun After that i tried to put up a fight
I begged daddy "Please no more!" All he could say "Shut up you stupid piece of SHIT!" Daddy unblindfolded me at last He said I love you so much
He went back into the car and pulled out a bat "Daddy I swear I wont say a thing!!!!" I was dead After only one swing..........................
**... Please if you care for all the children and women who have been raped add your friends to this conversation If you do not add your friends thenyou are promoting rape and violence!
YOU PERVERT

HOW NEAT ARE U UNDER THAT EXPENSIVE CLOTHINGS?

HERE WE GO AGAIN.
WILL YOUR UNDIES SURVIVE SCRUTINY
My encounter with a patient recently and an article i saw in the global excellence magazine made me to write this article. However most of the article are from the other article in the aforementioned magazine and my own research in the "field"(LOL).So my friends,here we go again.
why do you wear underwear if it can not survive scrutiny in terms of efficacy, cleanliness, style and fitness? According to the Americans, they always advicse their daughters never to leave home without wearing a clean underwears just in case they are involved in an "accident" in public.Few days ago two ladies came to see me in the hospital and along the line, i requested for examination to ascertain the real reason of one of the ladies complaints(I have to be thorough you know,just doing my work). Funny and embarassing the lady in question objected and after a few minutes of persuation from the friend who came with her, she obliged and guess what? I,myself being the man i am, was highly disappointed in this patient undies. I quickly saw the reason she has refused in the first place.Why on earth will a lady leave home with questionable undies? Different ladies view the issues of undies differently. While some invest in quality undies as much as they do on clothings and fashion items, the other group of ladies believe that since the undies are always hidden under the clothes, its not worth investing on. Aside trying to prevent public "accident or assault", do you consider the opinion of your man when you undress for action? Does your man becomes weak when he sees your undies? I definitely will just fashy and run away!!!There are some ladies who will still be neat with used or "second hand" undies whether it is a bra or pant. Some ladies do not know the reason they smell or stink in public. Let me tell you what, it is not ideal for a lady to wear undies(bra or pants) for more than a day. For the bra, its even pardonable to wear it for a day but not to the extent of repeating the same bra the next day outing because the previous days sweat must have caused some unpleasant odours which you sell out cheaply among your friends. The ideal way to wear a pant is just for six hours( Thank God i am not a female). A real sophisticated lady will wear three pants in a day except perhaps she is in the office. The moment you take a shower at noon(thats if you do in the first place), its ideal you change your pants and before bedtime, if you are the type that sleep with pants on, then its hygienic to wear another because if you are married, a welcome smell which is unpleasant might put your husband off and make him start seeing another lady who is tidier and neater than you.And even if you are not married, your boyfriend can always use that as an excuse to go somewhere else. And you people keep complaining that guys are heartless. Please, a dirty lady is more heartless than Lucifer,plain and simpple.Some ladies can not even undress in the presence of fellow ladies. You know why? It is not because they are shy, its because beneath those expensive clothings they wear, their undies have a terrible sight which will send you thinking for the rest of the day.Some ladies prefer to wear the BRIDGET JONES type of pant(the types our mothers are use to,the st.micheals and co). Some prefer the sexy lining while most ladies these days go for the almighty G-STRINGS for different reasons. To some, G-strings invites their men to bed, for some, its easy to wear and wash most especially when wearing a denim and they dont want the linings to show or whenever they wear a white trouser. It is worthy to also note that ladies should be cautious when inside public transport.Please if you are putting on G-strings always adjust yourself before seating, we guys, and i am sure ladies too are tired of seeing all those gothic scenes in buses. Another case is that of ladies that prefer motorcycle(okada) as a means of transportation. They keep adjusting their top to cover their trousers just to keep thier panties hidden, thats if they are putting on one at that moment. Please if you keep doing that, you are insulting the menfolks. A show will always be a show especially if it is a glimps of a lady's backside.CAPISCE!!! Afterall you were not forced to dress like that and we cant be closing ours when walking on the raod. And believe me, we all know thats what you want anyway, but you dont have to be have naked before calling attention to yourself.Back to our topic of discussion jare, Some very dirty and lazy ladies these days wear disposable panties. In the past, classy ladies wore it to provide class. Today our ladies wear disposable because they cant imagine themself bending to wash. How they no go dirty self,to wash na wahala.Have you heard of E-STRINGS?E stands for EDIBLE. These are the special kinds of panties for menstrual cycles. Whichever way, its ideal not to be found wanting when it comes to undies. Some categories of ladies dont care what their menstrual panties look like because they say menses itself is dirty and so they can afford to wear rag as pant to go with the dirty flow. Should it be so? whether such pant is black, torn, outdated, they dont care and are never interested or bothered to know whether it is attractive or not.Have you heard the saying; that your undies are like your CV? It must always be the best you can identify with at any given time of the day whenever it is necessary. Your pants or bra must be able to survive both bedroom and public scrutiny. Make it clean, make it lovely, make it sexy, make it adorable and most of all make it comfortable.THANK GOD I AM A MAN!!!! ALL I NEED IS A BOXER SHORT PER DAY.

VOODOO of the Chat room!!!

HERE WE GO AGAIN.
Hi friends,This is surely a deviation from my usual line of discussion but i just have to share this experience i had while in a chat room.For those of us that are very familiar with the mechanics of the chat room,u will surely know what i am talking about (the rommys of this world).I was fortunate to start a chat with a lady on skype (skype is one chat room where u can actually chat and video call with your friends). Okay back to this madam,While still getting to know more about each other,i told this lady that i am a medical practitioner.Thats where the yawa burst o, the next thing she asked for was that i should put on my webcam or i send my pix to her because she doesnt want to be 419ed. Men,i was shocked!!! But i dont blame her for her reaction though,afterall this is the age of yahoo yahoo and the chat room is a virtual reality world where everything u see or heard is probably not what it is.
Another experience i have had on this same skype is that of beggers and "i wan chop people" parading themselves as undergraduates begging for money or recharge card (the likes of SEUN, DEOLA BAJOH,KEHINDE of this world) and the best place to display their skills is on skype where they cant be seen but can only be heard,anyway they were however unfortunate to chat with people like myself who happens to be 419 conscious (once beaten twice shy). The funny thing about these set of people is that they were actually parading themselves as students of OOU,Ago iwoye. I was now wondering that what the hell is with that school,are they training fraudsters there or what. But i answered myself anyway because i have a sister and cousins who are products of the school and are wonderful people and ofcourse my good friend Yemi Basorun is also an old student of the school and he is doing well as a medical doctor,a very good one for that matter.
Anyway,it has not all been that bad though. I ve been opportuned to meet wonderful people with superb personality in this chat room. I want to say thank you for giving me the chance to be your friend,even though we ve not seen, and yes those that were also reluctant to show me there pix (hiding there pretty faces) one day sha we shall see man 2 man.Thanks to Aunty O.O at ibadan for given me tips on getting scholarship for my postgraduate studies abroad,BDD(the accountant) for being there always, my name sake (the stuborn girl) for her stuborness always, Rommy (big mouth),Ki square(firewood madam),BBW(the barrister at law),misidread(my investment adviser)Miss F.O.(the ironlady IT specialist),Imaobong(madam NGO),MyBOO(wonderful sexy Lady,hmmm),Meenar(Baby lawyer and my very good friend,she trust me so much and make sure i became a friend with her sister,wonderful)The pretty nurses(Ada, Jokebaby and Del p) My wonderful brothers Sultan and magama(we must see this weeekend)Busola F O A(the lady with two surnames,struggle continues) and ofcourse the ever busy journalist and acclaimed specialist on relationship,Miss Bukola Ajayi(Mrs?).Bukola,i ve got a question for your discussion group and i will appreciate if u can throw it to the floor.The question is "WHAT HAS GENOTYPE GOT TO DO WITH MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP"? I need people opinion on this because it is one major problem we are all facing.You all are wonderful people and i thank my star that i met u guys. You are part of the good things to come out of a chat room. Lets keep it this way and dont let us get corrupted. and finally to Miss Christabel for opening my eyes to see how people think when you tell them u are a doctor,they always wonder what u are doing in a chat room. Men,we new generation doctors are not here to work and work. We are going to be all the way up the social scale.So,guys and gals,thanks for being there and also a special congrats and happy married life wishes to my brother and friend Segun Abiona. I never knew preparing for ones marriage can be that stressful,men last time i saw segun he don lean so tey i come dey fear,i hope she is not reading this.
So my people,feel free to leave your comment,insults (Rommy) abuse(sidao) and gratitude for mentioning u as my friend.And to all those i was unable to mention their names and we do chat on skype or yahoo messenger,you are not forgotten. You are just like the unseen but highly important pillars.Thanks.

GET IT DONE AND NAME IT AFTER YOURSELF.

HERE WE GO AGAIN.



It's kind of fun to do the impossible..........WALT DISNEY (DISNEY WORLD).



Have you ever been to the disney world in los angeles? Have you been to Dubai in UAE? Those architectural structures there are surely man made. Sure,they are. But looking at them from a distance or in magazines,you may think they are difficult to achieve or maybe they are some of the wonders of the world. Na lie o, na man like me and you develop and build am!!!



According to Walt disney, he said it is fun to do the impossible. He did something weird and the place turn to a sort of mecca for fun seekers all over the world. Do you know how much Disney makes from disney world per annum? Please find out, i wont tell you that not to give you heart attack.



Best is not the last point, but a starting point for innovation...........LARRY PAGE (GOOGLE)



Have you heard? Google has purchased Yahoo!!!. You ve not?now you have. When larry Page said this words at a function in Atlanta at the early stage of starting google, hardly did he know that he will be going places.

All we need in this world is to inspire ourselves to get things done. okay fine you dont know Disney, fine you dont know Page. But you ve heard of Bill Gate,You ve heard that he never went to college but God, he is one of the richest man in the world. Being educated with the highest degree does not make you super rich. Oh you know that already now. But at the same time being ignorant and illiterate can be disastrous too.



Okay, you ve not heard of Disney,Page or Gate but at least you ve heard of Aliko Dangote. Havent you?. If your answer is no and you are a Nigerian,my friend you are not only ignorant you are also a walking corpse. He is the adjudged richest man in Nigeria, the richest black person ( hope i am right). You know what? Aliko actually said long time ago that he is richer than Oprah winfrey, but nobody cares then, but now it has been proven by Forbes magazine. He started his business with a small loan from his uncle, now he has not only surpassed his uncle he is gradually controlling the whole country.



Now you are probably asking why all these talks, do i want to be like Dele momodu's ovation magazine that reminds the poor of the ways of the wealthy. No all i am trying to point out is that impossibility is a word not binding on you. It is an ordinary word not an action,it is not even a verb that can be carried out. So why make it the basics of your life. Remove the IM and change it to Internally Motivated. Let your motivations come from within you. Remember if it has not been done, get it done and name it after you. Afterall it is yours.



I believe that our background and circumstances may have influence who we are but we are responsible for who we become.



Believe in yourself and the sky will be your starting point.



Once again thanks for reading this and your comments are highly welcome.



Yours,

Dr Femi Onasanya.

OPENING SPEECH

The journey of a life time starts with a giant or insignificant step. This step are mostly influenced by the society one finds himself or herself, peer pressure and parental advise.
Most times, the footstep taken may be a giant one but disguised as an insignificant one. This is were self believe and perseverance actually come in.
The major thing in life is not to believe in disappointment, always shorten it and get what you are expecting. You can do it because it has been done before, even if it has not been done before, why not make history and be the first to get it done.
Your dictionary should lack words like IMPOSSIBLE, LIMITATION, DISAPPOINTMENT and such others that bring depressed mood and sadness.
This is actually something i gained from the recent Bank PHB TV advert, you remembered the guy that played both limitation and impossible on the scrabble board. unfortunately the words do not exist in the dictionary they were using. Wow, i like that bank maybe thats why i bank with them. This is not an advert for them o, afterall they are not paying me to do this. But it is always good to see something good and appreciate it.
This bring me to the issue of electronic media. What exactly do you watch on your TV? what do you listen to on your RADIO? Is that programme you are watching or listening to educative, informative, can you even gain anything from it at all? Why waste your time and do something meaningful.
My dear friend, if you are a failure please you have yourself to blame. Dont ever blame anybody for your failure, afterall you are responsible for your actions.
Take my advise though, you should have reasons for all your actions. Think before doing it, infact thoroughly and not after.
If you are reading this, it shows you are a very good friend of mine. I want to say thanks for being there for me all these while and thanks for being a friend i can always count on. I LOVE YOU.
I wish you all the best in all you do and believe me we shall all reach the promise land together but una men you need to try harder o, forget them at the top, it is not easy being there.

Make it regular read my blog site ,yes it is definitely here i will be announcing my marriage. I am sure you are eager to know who the person is? And dont bother lying that you dont care, i know you do. Because soon i will be leaving the bachelors' club.

Take my advice, get it done now. Remember you are the only one reaching for the top, others are too and the BAD NEWS, there is only one available spot. Make it yours.
CIAO.

Dr Olufemi Onasanya,
Welcome to my world!!!